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How divorcing parents can protect their children

On Behalf of | Dec 6, 2021 | Divorce |

The process of getting divorced in New York can no doubt be overwhelming for the two parties involved. However, if they have children together, this process can also be an emotional and mental roller coaster for them. Here are a few things that parents can do to help their children through this challenging process.

Coexisting following divorce

One of the most important things that two divorcing individuals can do for their children is to learn how to coexist with each other. Otherwise, when they share the same space, this can easily lead to angst, conflict and avoidance, which can cause their children stress. The best-case scenario is that divorcing parents will be able to celebrate their children’s achievements together, meet their children’s teachers together and cheer for their children in the same room. Rather than focusing on being against one another, they should ideally focus on simply being there for the children.

Communicating respectfully following divorce

It also behooves two divorcing parents to avoid criticizing each other when their children are present. If they fight in the children’s presence, the children may naturally feel that the fighting is their fault. This can sadly take a toll on their self-esteem. Rather than being critical toward each other, the two parents should ideally work on managing their emotions and communicating with each other respectfully. This will help to minimize the negative effects of divorce on the entire family long term.

Seeking divorce mediation

It might also prove wise for two divorcing individuals to pursue divorce mediation, rather than traditional divorce litigation. Mediation allows both parties to arrive at a just and fair settlement without having to rely on a judge to decide matters such as child custody and property division for them. An attorney in New York can guide a divorcing individual through the mediation process while making sure that his or her rights and best interests are protected each step of the way.